Death as an Ally
One of the key elements in presenting this material is the realization that it is important to not put off the process of saying the “I love yous” or the “I forgive yous” in our life. We need to resolve our unfinished business and go on our own personal healing journey. Then we can make death as our ally.
We want death as an ally to keep us balanced with what is really important in our lives. We want to experience the healing of a symbolic death versus a literal death. Many clients say their cancer has been their wake up call. You may also know individuals who have chosen to die versus changing their circumstances or systems. In the Western world we don’t know “how” to let something die with grace and beauty. We have lost the steps needed to let go of the parts of our lives that don’t serve us and allow us to rebirth a new job, or a new relationship, a new physical body, or a new life.
When we experience a symbolic death we are re-informed about what is really important in life. Individuals who have had a near death experience as documented in Raymond Moody’s work stressed the importance of life and cultivating a unique and profound love this lifetime.
It is important to learn how to cleanse the heavy energy from our luminous energy field now because we never know when death will knock at our door. Tell those you care about how much you love them and how they will always be remembered, now take yourself through the steps of recapitulation. Heal the unfinished business. Let emotions wash through you and allow your life to be held at the energetic, not the personal. If you have a group of close friends you could even do a deathbed reenactment.
Death is only a doorway and this doorway must be experienced to understand it, not read about. You must know the experience symbolically in order to help sit with another who is at their final crossing, or letting go and rebirthing their lives. When you realize death can be your ally, by allowing you to be present in life, you become a pillar of calm in the middle of the storm of life. You understand the steps to death and rebirth.